I’ve been waiting faithfully on the Lord because He has always been faithful to me. I’m in search of my husband, a man meant for me. I’ve outgrown the “keeping it casual” or “he’s just my boyfriend” era. I’m ready for my husband. After my past experiences, I’ve come to understand the qualities I seek in him — and, just as importantly, the qualities I don’t.
In Search Of:
A man who lives for God.
A man who is spiritually and mentally strong, guided by wisdom and anchored by common sense. He should be able to read between the lines, understand context, and approach life with discernment.
A man with a servant’s heart. He must love animals — not just his animals, but all animals. This is not the man who leaves the dog outside day and night simply because “that’s how he was raised.” Maybe that upbringing had its flaws. My husband will bring our dog inside.
A man of deep integrity. He speaks kindly to others and doesn’t reduce people to insults like “idiots” or “bitches.” Kindness and encouragement will be the hallmarks of his words, not profanity. He might enjoy a glass of wine on the patio, but he won’t be an alcoholic who drinks daily. Life is too short for that.
A man who loves family and is comfortable around children. He respects his parents and siblings, even if they aren’t perfect. He doesn’t speak poorly of them because he knows the power of grace and forgiveness.
A man with manners and the good sense to use them. My husband won’t fearlessly criticize others, nor will he burp or fart loudly without so much as an “excuse me.” Table manners aren’t optional; they’re learned and consistently practiced. Hygiene is non-negotiable too—showering and brushing your teeth are basics. When you care for yourself, it shows, and I’ll want to kiss you fervently because of it.
He’s thoughtful. I don’t need constant reminders of your ex’s name—I’ll remember the first time you tell me. My memory is sharp; I’ll treasure the small details you share with me. I’d like you to do the same with me.
He’s independent, just like I am. I don’t need someone clinging to my side or seeking constant reassurance. My husband will value our time together but won’t require constant stimulation or excessive commentary on what we’re watching on TV.
I need a strong man with a strong mind, someone who doesn’t need to be babysat. He is solid in his faith and his morals. My husband isn’t playing the field or chasing endless women in a haze of desperation. Instead, he’s been preparing himself—becoming the best version of who God intended him to be.
I won’t be one of many women. I’ll be his woman—the one he has waited for as faithfully as I’ve waited for him.
